It was another cosy night. She was snuggled in bed laying her head on the fluffy pillow. It pondersĀ over again into her headā I should not have said this to him, I should have been a bit polite with himā. He always calls her āLoveā. This was not her actual name but she liked it more than her real name. This naming convention is on both sides. She calls him āHEARTā. Apparently, both love each other. It was not love-at first sight.
Eleven years ago, he saw her first time in her house. She came out from the bath with bit wetness in her hair. She was looking sedate in her pink dress. As she started talking to him, her chirpy voice was all over the room.He was speechless.
He saidā yesā, when his mum asked: –
Do you like the girl? Will you marry her?
He couldnāt sleep all night though after saying yes to mum.
What??????????? Ā Why I said āyesā,(don’t know why) it was just an hour meeting with her.
And he is captive now, as there was no ROLLBACK š
Mum already called her parents and she will be her soulmate with in few days.
He was thinking about his facial expression on the wedding day. would he be cheerful or despondent?
Or a quizzical face will work.
They got married but it was no-where near to happily married afterš
The first step is to know each other and next steps are to like each other š
So, they left with only one condition, love and like each other FOREVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The journey was nor smooth neither prickly or rough. Love tried knowing about HEART. He was kind and talkative. His speech was eloquent, for him nothing was light, everything was in detail and complex.
She was vivacious, dreamer and carefree. Unlike him, she didnāt understand complexity. Her life was casual than planned.
Both wanted to change each other to be a perfect and always wanted to correct each otherās imperfection.Improvement is always good but when correction turns into reproach than it hurts. It became a sense of disparage which felt more like INSULT. In relationship many times we forgot the value of a magical word āAPPRECIATIONā.
Years have been passed, every day He and She fight for perfection, for improvement. Both wanted to improve each other but instead, their daily wrangle for improvement took them to speak with disrespect and road to perfection brought them to an imperfect close where they choose only to speak up to profanity. After every brawl, only one thought came in their mind which makes them ponder,ā I should not have said this, I should have been a bit politeā.
Both love each other and wants to do well in search of perfection but instead, the relation became sour with rage.
Twilight brought the brawl and today is yet another day when she thought of being polite to him. He certainly is thinking same way while changing sides on bed.it will be the same sleepless night for theĀ loving couple.
Fantastic read š
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thanks dear for stopping by:-)
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Nice post, thank you for sharing, love is imperfect at its core.
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so true!! wise words!! thanks for comment
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Great post. Real love is when you love everything about your partner even their imperfections.
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Lovely words from you dear… no one is perfect !!
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Marriage is a beautiful ride and the road can sometimes be very bumpy . The way we tackle the bumpy part of it is very crucial. This is a lovely post.
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Rightly said!! It is beautiful ride and should be tackled nicely.
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A great read ā¤
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thanks, dear!!
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I read a quote this morning that reminded me of the awesomenest of marriage and the well you relate that relationship makes me realized how priviledge I am to have an amazing husband. Thank you!
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Oh, so sweet!! May you have many years of togetherness!! thank you for reading it!!
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Love is very complex, it takes time, understanding and true connection.
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Indeed, it does take time and patience. thanks for stopping by:-)
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this is how every relationship should be. after all who doesn’t fight.. If you are literally having a happily ever after, you are lying! mending things and moving on is relationship
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a sweet and sour relationship is the essence of happy married life.thanks for your lovely message dear
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It’s so important to keep improving ourselves and to remember to be kind to our significant other!
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agree, it certainly vital.
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Story was a little hard to follow at first, but I love the overall theme and I agree – love takes time to fully develop.
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glad to have your comment. It defines that I have to improve my writing to make it easily understandable. I would love to have your in my comment box always. thanks
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This is a great article. You should never try to change anyone. Either you work for each other or you don’t. Improvement is great though.
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yeah, improvement is vital for success and everyone needs their own time.thanks for thoughtful message dear.
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I agree that improvement is always good in a relationship. It’s never good to try and correct and change a person into someone they aren’t.
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I accord your words..thanks for your comment dear.
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